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Likeability Is Not An Antidote For Loneliness - How Vulnerability Builds Connection.

July 18, 20231 min read
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Maybe you try and cover up your loneliness by becoming what you think other people will like. This is one of the fastest ways to lose yourself, to feel miserable and alone. Being palatable isn't the cure you think it is, and in fact it makes you more isolated because then no one knows the real you. "Yeah, Amanda, thats the point, if no one really gets to know me they can't decide they actually hate me." I hear that and I'll challenge it. If no one really knows you, no one can really love you.

In this episode I talk about the actual cure for loneliness, vulnerability. Yep. Being who you are, darkness and all. Being authentic lets people get to know the real you, and gives people the opportunity to actually connect with you.

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